I found a blog post that I thought was really down to earth and practical. So here's a link for you.
Challenge the Moment: Love Your Child. Three Real Alternatives to Spanking
It's often very easy to find information about why spanking is not the best choice, the risks of spanking, etc..., but sometimes it's hard to find good practical advice as to know what to do when I'm about to blow. Pregnancy hormones can wreak havoc on the ability to remain calm and level headed with my child, so this practical advice is very welcome right now. I hope it's useful to others as well!